Honor the Truth

The wood that reflects this tenet is Madrone – The Madrone trees grow on hillsides, intermingled with many other species of tree. They do not dominate their environment and from a distance are unremarkable. They are easily overlooked. But on closer inspection, their bark gives away a hint of the rich beautiful wood that lies within.

The symbol that best reflects this tenet is the Zen symbol for the Sun & Moon – These are universal symbols of light. The sun projects the light and the moon reflects it. Without the moon’s reflection there would be no evidence of the sun’s presence. For this reason, Zen Buddhism considers the moon to be the symbol of enlightenment for it captures the light and sends it outward.

Madrone

The whole notion that there is actually something that is universally true, is something of a lie.

Personal truth is just like fingerprints or DNA; it is consistently unique for everyone. So if that is the case, why have a tenet that asks men to honor the truth? Well, because that is exactly what it is asking you to do. Honor the truth, not just yours but others.

So how do you get there? Start by asking yourself a simple question, Why am I here?
From there the questions peel away like an onion.
What do I hope to get for myself? What do I hope to give back to my family, community, the planet? What itch do I hope to get scratched from all this giving? What do I really, really want?

Asking these questions is in essence what most would characterize as engaging in the search for truth. This search lies at the heart of every religion and drives every philosophical construct.

Buddhists say that when you perceive truth, all else drops away, ego vanishes and there is nothing more than that moment. A passage of the New Testament of the Bible says, “You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.” It really is that simple, so long as you keep it personal.

The complications set in when you try to impose your truth on others. Once you accept that truth is a very personal thing, you come to realize that no one person and no set of people can claim ownership to it.

All of us have experienced moments when our truth about something has become crystal clear to us, sometimes painfully so. I know when I am there not because it resonates in my head, but because it resonates elsewhere, in my heart, my guts, my balls. Suddenly, I feel enveloped with a sense of clarity and for the moment I experience a feeling of exhilaration or of calmness and freedom. Everything falls into place and I see things that I must have looked at a dozen times with a new perspective.

However, just a little word of caution, this tenet does not say, “Tell the truth,” rather it says honor it.
Sometimes it is better to hold the truth in your heart than to reveal it to someone who might not be ready to face it.

For example, when you hear the question, “Honey, do I look fat in this dress?”

So when do you speak the truth? You can’t really pick the time, rather it picks you. If we suddenly declared, “It is time to honor the truth.” Each of us would unconsciously, or maybe even consciously, start erecting internal mazes that would make it exceedingly difficult to get to the truth.

In MDI, we strive to create an environment that fosters respect for sincerity, honor and genuineness. To create such an environment is a challenge. In such an environment, I have found there is an opportunity to learn something. Often it comes not from something that I say or think I know, but from what I hear come out of the mouth of another man. When I am listening to another without judgment, that’s when the truth has a chance to bubble to the surface.

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